Can personal finance be fun?
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For most of us, money matters are unpleasant. They involve budget issues and trade-offs and hard choices that frustrate everyone. So we need to encourage ourselves, to set up some kind of incentive program.
For example, estate planners say you should update your will every three years or so. So: think about what would be a special treat—like eating at a favorite restaurant, or going to a special show—and reward yourself when you update your plan. Similarly, you should look at how you are doing against your budget quarterly. Find a special activity that you can look forward to, and treat yourself when you do a review. (Just be sure it doesn’t break the budget.)
This may seem hokey, but it works. We like to do things that are fun for us, and we avoid the stuff that’s unpleasant. If couples fight over money, they tend to avoid dealing with those issues, which usually makes any problem worse. If they can find some way to make money matters less daunting or more enjoyable, they’ll probably address these problems more faithfully.
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Not everyone finds balance sheets and cash-flow statements boring or intimidating, (although most folks do). But everyone responds to incentives. By encouraging ourselves to act responsibly, personal finances can change from being a chore to being something to cheer.
Douglas R. Tengdin, CFA